Friday, December 21, 2007

The Great Commandment

My thoughts on Elder Wirthlin's talk "The Great Commandment"

I read this in sacrament meeting on Sunday and his words have raced through my head and now they are all jumbled up. I hope I can articulate what I’m thinking.

I have a Visiting Teaching breakfast I have to do for my ward in about 30 days. I’ve had this assignment for about 2 months and every suggestion that I was given by my RS president just didn’t sit well with me. I didn’t want to mock the VT program and I didn’t want to play a guilt trip on those sisters who through no fault of their own struggle with the assignments given to them. After reading this talk I know what I’m going to do. Visiting Teaching is about LOVE.
He says:
Brethren and sisters, as you prayerfully consider what you can do to increase harmony, spirituality, and build up the kingdom of God, consider your sacred duty to teach others to love the Lord and their fellowman. This is the central object of our existence. Without charity—or the pure love of Christ—whatever else we accomplish matters little. With it, all else becomes vibrant and alive.
When we inspire and teach others to fill their hearts with love, obedience flows from the inside out in voluntary acts of self-sacrifice and service. Yes, those who go home teaching out of duty, for example, may fulfill their obligation. But those who home teach out of genuine love for the Lord and for their fellowman will likely approach that task with a very different attitude.
(Of course change the word “home” to “visit”)

Now it how do we show that love? I believe it starts at home and becomes a habit. That is what we are going to work on at our house. We are going to work on showing love to our fellow family members. Hopefully that will extend to those we home and visit teach.

That will be hard, but we are going to do it!

Thursday, December 13, 2007

Faith, Family, Facts and Fruits

My thoughts on Elder Ballards talk, "Faith, Family, Facts and Fruits"

I really enjoyed this talk. Maybe it was because I read it shortly after Mitt Romney’s speech where he talked just a little about religion and our family followed it up with some huge discussions on religion and what “freedom of religion” means. We have also been doing a mini unit on the Constitution as two of my boys are doing their Citizenship in the Nation merit badge.

I don’t know if you have ever been asked to share your religious beliefs with someone, but once I was. She is a devote Catholic, goes to mass often, had her husband convert and her two boys do the youth thing at their church. Her best friend (our mutual acquaintance) shared a bunch of Mormon stuff with her, but one day after book club she asked the question, “Tell me a little about your church.” I don’t know if she knew she asked us realizing that out of the 6 in the room she was the only non-Mormon there. We did tell her a “little” about the church, but she already knew much of the “little” stuff. Thankfully we had numbers on our side so we could remember it all. But oh, it sure would have been nice to pull this talk out and have her read it!

I think after Christmas FHE are over I will pull this one out and we will go over the four F’s of Mormonism.

As I was reading this talk I was thinking what a great “teaser” it was for the full meal deal. Of course I like the “full meal deal” but not everyone is ready for it. I loved how he separated this into four different areas: Facts, Faith, Family and Fruits.

Just the other day my therapist (who has a partner who does the “dirty” work and is Mormon) asked me about birth control and our faith. I had to laugh as she thought that my husband and I didn’t do it because I stopped having children and it was against my religion to use birth control. I told her that how many children we had was up to us: God, Steve and myself.

As I have been reading many editorials in the newspaper lately about our faith (Mitt sure has brought it to the forefront) I’m amazed at that misinformation that is out there. One author (who was a professor of religion at a local college) said that there were many “strands of Mormonism” out there and was disappointed that Mitt didn’t tell us what one he belonged to. I’m not sure what he was referring to, but I was wondering if he meant ward. As a member who attends weekly (sometimes it seems daily) church services I’m not aware of “strands” of membership. ~chuckle~

Just the other day the boys and I were talking about some of the fruits he listed. One in particular was the longer life. Eventually we got to the discussion on how it takes a few years (decades?) before science and scientist come around to conclusions that Heavenly Father revealed long ago. We talked about how all the social scientist are now talking about how important it is for families to take a night and have dinner and reconnect by having a “council” or family game night. WOW! and to think we have been doing this FOREVER!

Just two days ago there was a letter to the editor in our newspaper from someone who went down to help the flood victims in the Lewis County area of Washington. She was amazed at a bunch of kids who came in with buckets, seemed to be happy and even sang songs while working. She asked them who they were and they said they were “Mormons” (they had on some yellow shirts—the ones the church hands out to the volunteers who help in these types of things). She was so impressed it was going to make her look at Mitt Romney again. If he believes in a “church that young people sing and help then maybe he can help heal our nation.” I thought what an interesting comment. Mitt sure has made the nation sit up and take notice of us. I honestly hope that I’m showing forth the goodness and fruits of the gospel so it can change someone’s life. We are being noticed!!!!

As Elder Ballard says, “…there is no problem with those who are personally acquainted with our members. But there are millions upon millions who are not acquainted with any member of our faith.” Those are the ones we need to “let our lights so shine.”

Friday, December 7, 2007

Mrs. Patton--the Story Continues

My thoughts on President Monson's talk "Mrs. Patton--the Story Continues"

President Monson bears testimony so strongly and so profoundly. I remember listening to this talk and thinking of my sister. She too will live again and I will get to see her.

President Monson bears testimony of the Atonement. I understand it so incompletely, but I have faith and hope in it and its promises. I truly cannot comprehend a love on both the Father’s and the Son’s side that they would do this for me, but being a parent gives some insight into that kind of love. OH, how I wish I could give my children a glimpse of that. How often I say a silent prayer and say, “Father please forgive me for my years as a teen and please give my mother an extra notch on the ladder to Heaven because she raised such an ungrateful soul who knew better than she, or so I thought.”

The best thing about this talk is the warm feeling is gives me. How do I pass that to my children—well, you can’t. You can only bear witness and hopefully the Spirit will touch their hearts.